Monthly Archives: March 2014
If you have the unique ability to make people laugh under any circumstances, then you have a wonderful gift. My husband has that gift, and it’s just one of the many reasons why I am blessed to be married to him. It doesn’t matter what kind of day you are having, whether you are depressed, sad or angry, he has the ability to bring a smile to your face and more importantly, laughter into your life.
During the past year, even as he continues to watch his oldest son, Tyler, battle a very rare and aggressive form of cancer called Choriocarcinoma, he is always able to make his son smile and laugh, even when he is stressed or he is in physical and emotional pain. Sometimes without even meaning to.
There have been days during the past few months were I have been in so much pain that I felt like crying, but he can walk through the door and simply say a few words that have me laughing until tears are rolling down my face. Despite the pain. Or when I am so mad at him, I want to verbally rip him to shreds…just a sentence or two and I am rolling with laughter and wanting to hug him tight.
Considering what my husband is going through, watching his wife struggle with health problems and his son fighting cancer…fighting just to be able to live, it’s amazing that he is still able to do this so naturally. I’ve seen him at his weakest, when he is sobbing gut wrenching, heart rending tears, and you know his heart is being ripped to shreds. But he is able to shake that off for a while (at least on the outside) and make people laugh again.
I wish I had that ability myself. Tyler also shares his dad’s ability to make people laugh and smile, though I don’t think it always comes as easy to him as it does his dad. Our youngest, Faith, also has same gift.
Laughter is the best medicine. It can relieve stress and is good for the soul. Laughter is healing.
We are very blessed. Some people have to turn on a comedy television program or movie if they want to laugh. I just have to be with my family. Bizarre? Yes, but in a good way. Even in the darkest of times, we can still find a reason to laugh and smile.
Proverbs 17:22: “A cheerful heart is good medicine,but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength.”